I know if i’m gonna love someone the second i meet them. If I don’t feel it then I couldn’t be bothered searching for it. The only problem with this is sometimes you see the love before they see the love, and there is an imbalance of love and that can be rather painful. worst yet.. they see the love when you’ve grown tired of waiting for them to see what you see. Are you blind? you think, but its too late, you let go of the love, and if you’re a good witch like your mother you get rid of IT with all your power.